Mad, Stupid, Paagal, Bevkoof, Fool??? R U ????

Just think when do we feel the other person is fool, stupid, mad, bevkoof, pagal etc etc. Think. Think ..

Whenever other person does not reacts or behaves the way we want him to do, so we categorize him as fool, stupid, mad, bevkoof, paagal etc etc. Simple. Isnt it??

The real issue is we want everybody to behave or react according to our own wishes or thinking. We think what we are doing is perfectly right and others don't have any knowledge, expertise etc. If the other person reacts accordingly we feel proud in it and if the other is reluctant to go his own way then he is fool, stupid, mad, bevkoof, paagal etc.

Is that means that the other person does not have any right to speak his own mind or do what he wants to do. Why we want to force our thinking, our opinion, our judgments on others illogically and categorize people as stupid, mad, fool. We forget that the way we think, behave and react other person can also think, react or behave in his own way. We take the other person granted and fail to recognize that there has to be a space left for him as well. Space for his thoughts, his feelings, his own world. So, who is the real fool ???

In Punjabi, paagal translates to someone who has understood (jis ne gal paa li hai, samajh li hai).

Sunne main to kisi ka viswaas hi nahin hai aajkal. Sab apni baat batana aur jatana chahte hain.

If I am a fool cos I follow my heart and mind. I am glad that I am a fool, a big fool. Definitely not like you and different from this world. Thanks for the complement. ;-)